Okay, this is your safe place to share: who calls the shots in your family about how Christmas is spent? Do you have default routines for each year? Do you and your husband agree on where to go and what to do? How do you balance time between your family of origin, your in-laws, and your own nuclear family?
Are you happy with the way you spend your holidays? What things would you like to change, if any, and what do you need to do to change them? How do you find time to create traditions within your own nuclear family, amidst the travel and bustle of the season?